The Art of Repair

A 9 week online group coaching program

“I’ve completed a lot of development courses in my time, and nothing comes close to this. It has profoundly changed how I do all relationships!”

ALEX, CANADA

Shift from conflict to reconnection in 60 days…even if you’ve been stuck for years.

Over 9 x 2-hour weekly calls, I’ll guide you to break free from looping fights and reconnect at a much deeper level — beyond blame, accumulated resentment, defensiveness, and withdrawal.

In just 60 days, you’ll feel safer and more confident in conflict, and know how to lead any argument towards profound understanding — even if nothing has worked before. Using a radically compassionate and practical repair framework, you’ll learn:

Where conflict naturally arises from and how it escalates
What you (and they) are doing that’s unintentionally creating and escalating your arguments
How to grow mutual understanding so you BOTH feel heard and seen.
How to identify and tend to the hidden unmet needs (yours and theirs) beneath your conflicts.
How to recreate emotional safety in any moment it goes missing
How to initiate repair conversations with those you love.
How to address difficult or hurtful behaviours and restore trust.
How to set and maintain healthy boundaries that stick.

“How I see the world has dramatically changed, in a way that years of therapy never achieved. I'm happier and more centred than ever before."

MYSHELL, AUSTRALIA

Who is this for, and who will I be in a group with?

The program is for couples and individuals (partnered or not partnered). Each group will typically consist of a mix of individuals and couples, men and women, partnered and non-partnered participants. Most participants are typically from the USA, Australia and Europe.

The relationships we will be addressing are not just romantic, but also include relationships with our kids, parents, siblings, colleagues, friends, exes…you name it.

The program includes:

9 x 2 hour weekly Zoom group coaching session
Opportunities for live coaching
Weekly practice assignments to grow skills and confidence
Access to Zoom recordings of all call recordings for 12 months
Access to a community chat where you can be supported between calls
Is open to both men and women, individuals and couples
Maximum 9 people per group

The Nine Modules

Week 1 - Connect and Lay the Foundation

Week 2 - The Mind: conflict is created

Week 3 - The Heart: conflict is dissolved

Week 4 - The Truth: speaking to what really matters

Week 5 - Heart-led Conversations

Week 6 - Tending to Our Pain & Theirs

Week 7 - Finding Ways Forward

Week 8 - Putting It All Together

Week 9 - Becoming Masterful

“Such a wildly revolutionary approach to growing peace! I’m filled with hope: for my relationship and for all relationships.”

JOE, CANADA

Group Coaching FAQs

You’ll learn how to skilfully navigate conflict in a way that consistently leads to deeper connection. You’ll become confident using practical tools to stay increasingly present to any moment of relationship upset with anyone in your life, and communicate in such a way as to allow both you AND them to be fully understood, such that your unmet needs and theirs can begin to be met. In doing so, you’ll grow trust, hope and openheartedness in al the relationships you cherish most. You’ll find testimonials here.
The 9 x weekly 2-hour calls will consist of three elements: each week I’ll ask participants to share the wins they are experiencing as they learn to apply the tools, then I’ll introduce the next component of skills development, then I’ll support individuals with the challenges that they encounter in applying the skills I teach. You’ll have access to the recordings and content for 12 months so you can replay and revise at any time.
Over the 17 years I’ve been teaching humans the tools to repair moments of relationship upset I have seen that group learning delivers the most value for my clients. In a group setting you not only get to witness your own growth in terms of resolving your relationship upsets, but you get to witness others applying the same tools to a wide variety of their relationships as well. This allows your learning to be far deeper, more integrated and more complete than you would receive in a 1:1 program. 1:1 support is available after the group program, to support your increasing mastery.
Both. Each group will typically consist of a mix of individuals and couples, men and women, partnered and non-partnered participants. The relationships we will be addressing are not just romantic, but also include relationships with our kids, parents, siblings, colleagues, friends, exes, you name it.
It’s natural to have doubts or concerns about revealing the tender aspects of our relationships in front of complete strangers. I focus very much on creating safety for all participants in the group to express their experiences by normalising and validating the very natural hurts, frustrations and disappointments we commonly find ourselves in. Participants commonly report feeling comfortable and ‘in the same boat’ as others from week 2 onwards. You’ll also never be asked to share anything that feels simply too private.
Yes, there’s time on the calls to receive direct coaching with me, and I also support each participant with their individual questions and challenges in the group chat between sessions.
Yes absolutely. I’ve transitioned to this model (group coaching first) to create more space for 1:1 support for individuals and couples who have completed the group coaching program. You’ll have the option of booking a package of 3 x sessions with me after the completion of the group program. The skills you learn in the group coaching will give you the foundation to make any 1:1 sessions you have with me far more productive and valuable.
I invite couples to join for the price of an individual registration ($AU2750). If you do so, each week one of you will be active on the call (sharing, receiving coaching), and the other will be passive (still on the call but not sharing or receiving coaching), so I maintain the group size as 8 active participants each week.
It’s natural to thing that ‘conflict’ means yelling and screaming and throwing things, but I use the term to denote any major or minor ‘upset’ in our relating to others: any disappointments, hurts, frustrations, resentment, confusion, or any moments we want to more skilfully speak our needs or address the behaviour of others that’s upsetting to be around. You may notice, if you’re human, that there are some of those in your life!
It’s pretty common for participants to need to miss one or two of the live calls due to family/ life commitments and unforeseen demands. I ask that you just watch the replay of any missed sessions prior to the next call, so you stay on track with the group.
Yes, I run groups about 4 times a year. If you stay tuned via the group coaching waitlist or on my Instagram account you’ll be notified of future dates as registrations open.